birdoz asked:

Me and my boyfriend have been Dating for 2 and 1/2 years. And now we are going to college, separately. He wants to have experiences with other girls, but he loves me most and does not want to break up. Should I let him have these experiences knowing that they aren't emotional, and that I'm the one he is always going to come back to?

sexandmess:

No. Definitely not. I’ve been with my boyfriend for five years and the way we’ve lasted is because we only have one line that would break us up and that’s cheating, of any kind. We can argue till kingdom come but they’re just words and mood swings, they don’t mean anything. Don’t let him take advantage of you like that. Me and my boyfriend went to separate universities hours apart but that doesn’t give us a reason or need to go fuck other people. Why would we need to? Absence makes the heart grow fonder and the sex is fucking out of this world if we haven’t seen each other in a while. Tell your boyfriend your not some stepford wife that’s going to sit at home while he explores his sexuality needlessly. Give him an ultimatum and if he chooses fucking around then he was never worth your time in the first place and definitely isn’t good enough for you. x